You are telling yourself: You DONвЂ™T think you are worthy of his pursuit when you chase a man.
YouвЂ™re interested in a fresh man in which he appears like he could be thinking about you, too. Nevertheless when he does not call or text you (heвЂ™s shy and insecure and heвЂ™s afraid to call you and ask you out like he said he would) you convince yourself. You call him to "help him down" but heвЂ™s noises unenthusiastic and uncommunicative and then he coolly declines your invitation to satisfy for coffee or a cocktail.
Your heart sinks you made an irreversible mistake in calling him because you know.
Or possibly you had been nervous in your very first date and youвЂ™re afraid you blotched with him. You stress in him, or that you talked too much or you drank too much that you didnвЂ™t show enough interest. You agonize, should you phone him to bolster your fascination with himвЂ”or should you wait you? for him to call
You succumb to your self-doubt and anxiety and you call him. You ask him over for lunch or even the flicks in which he blows you down.